Quote: NG seems to like R talks - he really wants to hear about how hurt I feel. This seems to also have been OW's tactic, and instead of being fed up, he seems to respond by being more sympathetic, and more accommodating. Does this make sense to anyone?
My H liked to hear the ILY's. Pretty much along the lines of R talk (or pressuring), but I was saying it--and saying it frequently--just a couple of weeks after I moved out. I used to call him up just to say ILY. And he would always perk up whenever I did that. Still likes to get the vmails I leave him.
