There are some people who seem to be motivated by pain... sometimes their own and sometimes by attempting to understand others by tapping into that pain.
I can think of a few times where I thought nothing of something until I saw the reaction of someone else... if that response was anguish and emotional pain, I was very inclined to go back and do a mental replay of what had happened to see if I felt differently.
The bad part about this tendency is that this form of figuring out DEPENDS on others to demonstrate or spill their feelings first before any work is done. I wonder why he does not feel he can do this without having to see you go through your emotions first?
Any insight on this?
Great job with the positives, sweetie. A big hug coming your way (((((Slowly))))).
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
