Hi Betsey - Much to my pleasant surprise, yes, it does seem to have opened him up a bit. I feel quite encouraged, and want to capture these moments, so back to posting positives and negatives.
Positives + we both worked from home yesterday, as there were a bevy of workers due + NG sends be a paintbrush creation of a large heart with tears on them - meaning his heart could not get bigger for loving me, and it cries seeing me hurt. I still get choked up seeing it, I've saved it as my desktop background + he was very attentive during the day + he postponed a business meeting to come with me on a trip this friday + we have a wonderfully relaxing evening, light dinner, lots of mutual admiration
Negatives - OW calls him at the end of the working day, they have a 5 minute conversation. Crazymaking alert - have they been on email all day?
Sooo, I shall keep on dbing my heart out, but with one major change - NG seems to like R talks - he really wants to hear about how hurt I feel. This seems to also have been OW's tactic, and instead of being fed up, he seems to respond by being more sympathetic, and more accommodating. Does this make sense to anyone?
