Quote: I know I have not been dbing for very long, but there seems to be little evidence that he is capable of breaking free from OW's influence. So like many people here, I'm in the mode of it this worth the effort?
It does seem to be the mode of the BB doesn't it? I have been asking myself what it is I want out of this M. I've been soo busy getting H back that I've forgotten ME and what I want and WHY is my H STILL in contact with OW!