Hi KAW - Welcome back Your perspective is timely, and I'm glad it is along the lines of the note I wrote NG this morning, he is yet to respond, I concluded with an invitation to him

so what are we doing to each other? if you truly believe we have a chance for a happy life together, i am willing to continue along this journey. but we simply cannot do this on the basis of the past 4 weeks - the uncertainty for me is too much to bear. i'm open to listening with an open heart and open mind to anything you want to suggest.

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