Hi Slowly,
I haven't read your current thread yet since being back from vacation, but want touch base and read your most recent post.

I'm sorry to hear of the poor choice in judgement NG decided to use. ... but I think Sage is right. Often in hopes of deflecting the heat off of them they use the adage the best defense is a good offense.

I think NG is thinking if he hasn't up to now, he ain't gonna lose Slowly over this. I wonder just how shaken he would be if you convince him you are in total agreement and then leave his presense to stew over it for a while? What if you explain to him that you can no longer accept she knows how to contact you where you reside and if that means having to live in your next home alone to have it that way ... so be it!?

It just might get the point across, and let him know if his response is just a bluff, it ain't gonna work. Just some thoughts to ponder.

Will try to catch up as soon as I can.

'til later,
KAW