Slowly -- I'm so sorry about recent developments...I'm sending you warm thoughts.

As for h's statement re calling it a day...try to see it for what it likely is...a defense mechanism...trying to offset pain...whatever.

Admiring your strength from afar,
Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.