I think that is probably best to let it just pass with no mention. He will have to deal with his feelings and I'm sure he had some and is still working to process them all.
But, he is working harder on his marriage!! Time with you!!!
I am trying to select light fixtures for my home this evening.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Hi Deb - Thanks for checking in. Bit of a roller coaster today.
Just found out that the reason for NG's broodiness a couple of days ago was his spilling the beans about our new house to OW, despite promising me that he will not. And to top it all, he has been sending her photos of our new place. I feel quite violated. My mood to move into this new place has just evaporated.
Having confronted him with the evidence of photos sent to OW, and watching him shake like a leaf, and then throw out the argument that if these discussions continue, maybe we should call it a day, right now I'm not sure what is going on in my life.
I feel a similar thing....H "can't" leave OW but is bonded to me....I wonder what is the best approach, finding a bottom line and, you know, moving, kicking the guy out, whatever....or more warmth and solidarity. I'm not as far along as you.
The only reasonable advice from me is, wait 24 hours or more before making any decison. Then, make it. You'll be fine whichever way, I'm sure.
Time with you!!! 
