Hi everyone - Happy to be back to normal this Wednesday morning. Monday and Tuesday were hectic days, with NG around most of the time, so somewhat difficult to post
Positives
+ we spent A LOT of time together, just being together over meals, free time, and some of our work time too. I did a far better job not speculating if he was missing his contact time with OW - yeah me.
+ we had a good conversation, NG asking me why I thought we were still together; it was the perfect opportunity to validate the honesty he has been putting in place since October. He liked it, and said that he would like to know more about how I feel about things. Well now, this is such a departure from dbing and no R talks, right? I'll have to figure out what is appropriate to share with NG
+ we had dinner with his colleagues last night, and it struck me that I still learn about his work plans when he is talking with other folks. Sooo, must make sure there are more outings with his people so that I can build more connections
Not so good
On Monday afternoon, NG tells me he has to extend his stay through Wednesday, knowing full well that I have an important meeting back at home base. My first thought was that OW was going to join him on Wednesday, and unfortunately started asking thinly veiled questions. This led to some harsh words between us, though we recovered within an hour.
Slowly
