Going back to basics for a while. Plan to figure out goals for the month, and post positives for each day. Maybe the negatives too, as I really need to focus on kicking MY bad habits
Goals I will be more positive and appreciative of the time NG and I have together, remember to articulate what has made me happy, to encourage more of the same I will shed my fear that NG will re-connect with OW if I am not around him, and plan for once or twice a week to meet my friends or just have ME time, outside of work NG and I will settle into our new home, and figure out new rituals We will do a better job of selling our flat I will develop my skills at chess and be a passable player
And then in August, if all goes well, I will learn to cycle so NG and I can share another love together
