It is very interesting to read how you overcome these problems. Unfortunately for many of us guys, our women are far less motivated then you. You were lucky to actually know another women that LOVED sex. I swear that LD women tend to associate, since my wife claims to be just as normal as all her other girlfriends, and I have the feeling they are all pretty LD as well. When it comes to sex, HD are role models, not ND's.
Quote: LD people need to realize that changing from LD to HD isn't easy...it will take time...most of all it will take effort...and if they love their partner that effort is so worth it. However, if the LD partner isn't willing to make that change then the HD partner has a long road ahead of them. For as we all know, you can't change someone...they have to want to make that change themself...the only thing you can change is you.
I agree with you 100%. Unfortunately, I know I have a problem in my marriage, and being a guy, I want to fix it now. But there is nothing I can do to fix it. All I can do is change me, and then hope to God that whatever action I take will then cause a miracle to happen and my wife will suddenly decide to change. How encouraging, I have to take shots in the dark and hope that something will cause change to happen. Talk about no power. However, the wife has all the power, she just has to change her level of desire and everything will be fixed. She has ALL the power,, I know she does, and it frustrates me to know she can fix the situation, but does not.
