Quote: Many of our spouses expect us to give up sex entirely. They are denying who and what we are
Tom they are also denying themselves the happiness mentioned in a previous post.
Quote: and often do their best to belittle and take advantage of us because of our desire.
That seems to be a very common thing. We as HD's are asking our LD's to change...that's pretty threatening to them (I think). Change is scary when you are being asked to become something you aren't familiar with...which asking an LD to become a more sexual person (from my own perspective) is scary. It's so much easier to attack the person asking you to change and belittle them for their differences. I wasn't asked by anyone to change...it was a personal choice for me...so I realize it's not quite the same thing. But some of the issues an LD has to overcome in order to become more sexual can be quite frightening. Unfortunately some people are never able to face those fears...I'm hoping for you and keeping my fingers, toes, eyes...everything but my legs crossed in good hopes for you. LOL...wait, that sounded really bad! Oh well.
