Quote: There may be some good points to the post but much of it is as helpful as telling an allergy sufferer to stop sniveling.
Tom, I used to think so, too. It took me a LONG time to "get" Corri, but once I did, I came to see just how wise and together she is. She is one amazing lady. One of the things that allowed me to finally "Get" her, was that I DID get PM, crack it and get busy. The moment I started reading that book, my life changed for the better. The effect was immediate. The VERY DAY I started reading it, I could feel the power of it. I read, I think, the first four chapters that first day. I blasted through the entire book in 5 days. Then I started again, and read it much more slowly. I think I'm about due to read it again. I'm sure there's a lot I've missed yet.
Quote: Many of us have been way out of our comfort zone for a very long time.
That's not the Comfort Zone Corri was referring to. The Comfort Zone is where you stay when your R is boring and predictable, and painful, and dry, but you're afraid to try something radical, because you don't know what the outcome will be. You don't want to say anything too forceful, because you don't know what she'll say in return, or where the convo will end up. It's too scary to make real changes. So instead of getting a life, you get a support group. Misery loves company. That's what Corri was talking about...
Quote: Do you have some insight into how we could interest our repective spouses in joining with us in a carnel marital union?
The book she mentions has all the wisdom you can handle...
