Ok, so your wife has a high IQ and she's stated that her self-image is increasing...but for me that doesn't connect with being more confident in denying you. That sounds more like a control issue. Even wonderful people can be controlling, as we all know.
My mother is a WONDERFUL person too, but I've seen her manipulate the heck out of my dad...she's LD as well. My mother has a very high IQ, but she thinks she's not smart...go figure.
Anita - not sure this post really had a point to it.
