Great thread, Lassie! Thanks for starting it. I really loved the "think of something you want...you can see it, almost touch it, but can't have it" idea. And the accompanying idea that your spouse has the ability to give it to you, but won't. Jeeze, that just kills me thinking about it. I don't know if my W will ever "get it." I should give her more credit, I guess.
Of course, now the question becomes, how do I get Lassie's great post to my W so she can read it? Any ideas?