We started ML probably 6 times a week. I've always done my best to please her - I just didn't get much feedback. When we married the frequency immediately dropped way back to pretty much once a week. Now she's telling me she's never liked it. She's always done it just for me. She'll never learn to like it and she just wants to give up.
I've read the sex books and earnestly tried to follow through, but I got no feedback. I WANT to take a long time building up to it but I get a "Hurry up. I'm tired."
For much of my M I've been in a world of pain and I've confused my W with someone who actually gives a s***.
This weekend I'll try again to do things she likes. Be pleasant and make her life as happy as possible while I deal with her judgement, rejection and apathy toward me and my simmering lust.
Oh, yeah. It's always the man who exploits and oppresses the woman.
