Part of the problem of compromising with a ND women is that there is no acceptable level of sex that will keep both spouss happy. Ourr marriage started out at 365 times a year, now it is about 8 times a year. I prefer the 365, she prefers 0. So compromise would be splitting the difference, so around 180 times a year. To put it bluntly, she does not have a prayer of even becoming 1/2 the women that I married. Would 12 times a year do it, NO! Would 30 times a year do it, NO! 3 times a week, or 150 times a year, YES! There is no way a person can reach this level unles they DESIRE sex, which of course she does not. I have been reading the success stories on here, and frankly, the LD women are working at what they think is very hard for them, and they are not even remotely close to achieving TRUE success according to what their spouse right. The only real hope that LD women have is that they must somehow learn to desire their spouse, and that is RARE indeed.
