Rowena, I read your Post on another & sought you out. Having read your situation, it sounds scary. Have always believed in marriage but not in your circumtances. Like Tricia suggests, run do not walk to a lawyer. Do you have any family, ie brothers? My sister had our brothers go & ask her H to leave our mother's house after they had moved in with her & he wrote a suicide note threatening everyone in house, my sister, their kids & my mother. See a lawyer, talk to women's crisis center, talk to police. see if you can get restraining order or something similar. I checked, you're in BCS, are you connected with TAMU? Is there someone there you could talk to there. There are lawyers on campus for the students. Also most lawyers will give potential clients 30 -60 minutes free to see if they can help. If you do this it might serve as SHOCKTREATMENT for your H. Can you prove that all of your money went into house & support of family? Well, enough of this gloom & doom. I hope he gets his act together and you get what you want. And your life becomes happier. Give your son your love, he probably needs you more than ever with his father acting so weird.
