Shay, You just hit the quote thing, then past between them...
Focus on the positives, ok? It doesn't matter what you do regarding any of those things. Either H calls OW or he doesn't. Act as if he won't. HAVE FUN.
Sage refers to those negative thoughts coming up when we are ready to face them. So, maybe it is all about you and not about H. Maybe you are just ready to face those fears.
You are a goddess.... stop thinking that he wants to call her. He is with you, this man that you want is with YOU. Okay?? Go there, instead.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.