Thanks guys for your continued support. Christmas party pictures havent been circulated yet but I am waiting. Things are great . In fact H has been working very late this past week on projects and has has so gone out of his way to call me from the office and have phone conversations in front of me so that it is obvious to me he is working and being honest with me. When this whole mess started just about a year ago H was always "working". So his going out of his way to make sure I can see he really is working is huge for me. When we started MC and reconciling I remember him saying he was NOT going to report to me his where abouts like a teenager. Well now he is doing it because HE WANTS TO and that in itself is proof he loves me. I havent asked him once to call or questioned him, I have been acting "as if". Although I do have "twinges" when he goes out" but they are getting less and less. I have thanked him for calling when he does. My Christmas present this year is truly husbands committment to work on this marriage.
I will keep you posted on the Christmas Party pictures.