GBO- Thanks for the post. Glad my journey helps others. Let me know how MC was today. H and I were in weekly MC up until we came back from vacation and never started up again. I am going to raise the subject tonight if timing is good. My biggest hang up right now is continued contact with OW. At work for sure of course and possibly outside of work although at this point I have no proof. I am thinking my hang up on this issue is because everything I read about rebuilding life after an affair clearly states that ALL communication with affair parnter must end. Its just not going to happen in my situation, at least not in the immediated future. Do you think I am thinking too much about this issue. Tell me I am regardless of what the books say. I need to just forget about that one issue especially if I dont have proof of his contacting her and put the issue to bed. Agreed?? Okay that is what I am going to do as of this post. Wish me luck....
