Thanks for the post. I will probably be hanging out here for a while. Yes I am ready to give up Let him go to OW and really find out what it is like to miss me. The fact he works with her makes it harder. It is going to take a long time for him to get over her if he sees her every day. I no longer want to wait. Let him have her and I believe it will not last that long. Perhaps if he gets over her on his own without the threat of losing me things would be different. I just hate the thought of having to tell the kids. H moved home July 1st and we had a nice vacation. I now realize it is possible to have strong feelings perhaps love for two people at the same time. I just cant be one of those "people".
