(((((((((KMFLA))))))))) Do not feel like a fool..you are doing the best that you can. I have read a lot of books on the man giving up the ow. It will take a long time for him to get over it. There will be withdrawal....as all of us have felt when our WAWs left. It will be painful for him, but if he is strong enough to really try to let go of the ow, he can do it. It has to be very painful for you to know he has been at the ows house after he said he was giving her up. This is where you will need a mountain of patience. I don't blame you for asking him to leave, and I'm certainly not in any position to give advice but I feel that you are a very strong woman and that you still love him very much. Take care. Are you really ready to give up?
