Thanks In4Ride I am going to just what you said. Beleive it or not I am not really angry about itas H has been honest about feelings for OW before moving home. That was one of the reasons he kept saying he wanted to move home but was afraid to. He also told me he knows he cant act on the feelings. So while I know it might happen and would be liying if I said that I am not fearful of it , I dont think he will sneak around to see her etc. He may return phone calls or emails but I am sure its hard for him to ignore her at this point. So hopefully she will continue to cry and be needy and put pressure on him because at this point I think that will push him away. Lets just hope so.
