YOU WROTE: I really don't want to hash out the terms of my D online... it's probably no good for me to journal this nor is it a good influence for the newer posters. I will commit to posting to others, though...
You, Betsey, are such a classy lady.
As far as meeting for the graduation drink, let me know what time y'all will be raising a glass...and I will have the west coast contingent together, poised with drinks in hand!