Hey Bets, Well I wasn't clear in my first post...I didn't go on vacation (sniffle, sob)--I was reiterating MW's thoughts HE had while on vacation. Specifically the ones about you. I suspected that he sortof left that conversation where it last ended and that this played into your decision, but wasn't sure.
He has come a long way but, still, there is nothing wrong with needing more. There is patience, and there is enabling you know? You forcing his hand and demanding a decision isn't the right answer. The right answer would be, of course, for him to conquer his fear and complacency. I hope that he does this soon, regardless of whatever else happens. It can't be a good way to live your life!
Regarding Mr. Smoothlines at the convention, wow, however did you resist punching his lights out after all his slick moves?!