Hi Betsey - I read about D7's medical complications, D10's hormones and there you are, serene as a Madonna, calmly sticking to your boundaries. In my current state of turmoil, you are an inspiration.
I totally agree that dbing notwithstanding, none of us should settle for less than we deserve. Than we want. You are winning this, Betsey. Not necessarily with MW, but nevertheless, a winner in this journey we are all on.