Hi Betsey,

Now these are interesting developments! You know, while the Mr W you describe sounds like he has (or had) quite a few issues, he does not sound like a complete fool – and only a complete fool would let a woman like you slip through his fingers without a fight. It seems like he’s coming around to realizing that himself.

Whether you still want to build a future with him, or decided it is “too little, too late”, makes no difference to the fact that you’re an amazing person – and as you can see from all the wonderful responses here an inspiration to many.

You’ll know what’s right for your Ds and yourself. GO BETSEY!!!!

Pen