Well Betsey, you continue to move forward w/confidence and a purpose and I commend you for that. You have been a tenacious DBer and have come through w/flying colors. While I use your methods as a learning tool, I definitely do not have the same R w/my WAS as you do w/Mr. W so it becomes a bit more tricky on my end. Nevertheless, we are both at the same point in the process (18mos for S, no more trying to reconcile, etc...), you have stepped up on me by announcing it to your D as I have been pondering that subject myself for the kids.
I wish you all the luck w/your discussions and w/Mr. W and know that in the end, your friendship is still there regardless of the outcome. You should be one of Michelle's success stories regardless as you have used these tools for yourself, like she professes. Good luck and God bless you and your girls. Tootles............