Friends, Squatters & Lurkers--Fishbowl musings

[SadBurl]

Pen
What a fabulous letter! Boy you make me think.

when they feel most that they need to DO SOMETHING NOW, when every nerve ending screams for action, that is the time for them to do nothing.

This is something I find sooooo difficult. I'm a very honest person and when something bugs me I need to let it out. So you can guess in my sitch a lot of things bug me. So what I need to learn is some self control.

LBS to “accept responsibility”.

I have done this but H still says no it is all his fault. I know I didn't help with the breakdown in our marriage some of the fights we had still haunt me. How do I get H to realise that I want and need to take responsibility for things too.

One final warning: do not let them “take the high road”.

Oh at the minute I want to have the biggest fight with H due to his lies about his vacation. It is going to take so much self control to rise above it. Maybe I'll write down what I'm going to say when he calls again.

Thank you Pen for making me think. Lots of journaling this weekend.

God bless