Quote: I ignored my wife's needs in a particular area of our relationship for many years. She was not holding out on me for punishment, but the unmet need was a very real factor in her ability to respond to me sexually.
I think that's what the C was getting at in her suggestion about finding out what my W wanted me to change. I haven't yet found the need to offer it as a business proposition like she suggested, but I have been feeling W out and trying to find out what she would like me to change. I finally got a couple of things out of her this weekend, so I have my homework cut out for me.
