Quote: Thanks for the recommendations, Scott. I'll definitely take a look at the books. Of course, remember that she read SSM and used it to tell me how I was doing everything wrong.
Egad, do you realize what's in the SSM book?? Michele mentions all of the "free help" that's available at divorcebusting.com on the message boards!
With all the talk about letting the LD spouse know/not know about these message boards, I'd think that giving SSM to the spouse would be "the best way" to subtly get them to come here on their own. If they choose to c'mon over, it turns out to be "their idea" and not another of the HD spouse's "bright ideas."
