Quote: .is she working on making the marriage work with you?
I suppose she is. She tries to be affectionate at times. And I don't want to minimize her sacrifices in the least--she did quit a job she loved, a home she loved, and moved to my city. I didn't force her to do this, however. I would have made our arrangement work. We had a commuter marriage; saw each other on weekends; and lived 150 miles apart during the week. It was the arrival of our DD3 that really changed things. She was, essentially, a single mom during the week. That, and the fact that, when I was in her town on the weekends, my kids would often need me for something in my town. We talked about me moving to her town, but I didn't go for that. As I said, I was willing to continue our commuter marriage. She actually surprised me with her plan to move to my town.
She won't be very willing tonight to make our marriage work...this may last into the weekend, as well. I just have to HOM, and keep being the lovable (but strong-minded) Hairdog.
