The first thing I'd tell a LDW is that she needs to try (and I mean really try...not make a feeble attempt with a bad attitude) to see things from her H's perspective. She needs to try to think of something that is so important to her, then imagine not having it (she can see it, she can smell it, and almost touch it...but she can't have it)...then add to it the fact that her partner has the ability to give her what it is she's missing but can't or won't for some reason. I know it sounds all too simple, but it's true...at least from this Green Eyed perspective...I'll continue more on a new thread :-)
