I was thinking that it might help if HP, GELass, Annette, et al started a post explaining what their talk with a LDW would include. I know that, as a man, it would help me understand a W's POV (it might be hard for a H to tell his W to read the HDW's posts here) and it could be helpful for the LDWs who lurk, too. (I don't recall any LDM here...?)
Something like "How to become a H(er)DW", or "What Every LDW Should Know"?