Thanks for the info, SBH. I'll try to get her to start fantasizing. Well, she just called me, and here's some more info on why I think she was so cuddly last night. She wants me to go with her to look at a house. Granted, she just moved here from her prior address about one year ago, mainly to be closer to me, and so that I could be closer to my kids. This new move would definitely screw up the kids issue. I'd probably have to end up modifying the custody order.
Is she being cuddly because she's trying to seduce a positive reaction out of me? I don't know. I do know that I intend to tell her that I'm not interested in buying and moving into a house with a woman who's shown me that she's not that interested in working on the relationship.
Why does she want to move? She moved from acreage (about 6 acres) and privacy, to suburbia. She wants me to go look at a 100-plus year old home on 7 acres. Yikes, I've lived in an old house before, and, unless this one's been re-done, you end up coming home at the end of the day and seeing the 57 major things you need to do to keep the house standing. That, plus you now have 7acres, to mow, to cultivate, to plant, etc. Plus, of course, your job, your kids, etc.
I'll humor her for awhile, but I can't imagine leaving a house where I am literally 4 minutes away from my three older kids, 20 minutes from work, and have a yard that takes me about 25 minutes to mow, and chucking it all for the frontier life. Heck, this new house doesn't even have central air conditioning.
