Ooh I totally agree with this. I am so sick of the pharmaceutical industry pushing drug after drug, in an attempt to stumble on the next Big Thing and make a trillion dollars. I think that most drugs could be eliminated (esp in America) with lifestyle changes, and this would include sexual dysfunction. Not all drugs, now, but a huge majority of them.
I am sympathetic to the LD partner though because in order to increase desire you have to have sex. And, truly, the last thing you would want to do is have sex when you have no desire. And THAT feeling would foster resentment which would kill any future desire that you might feel...what a neverending cycle.
The key seems to be when the LD partner themselves says, You know I am going to do this and see what happens.. Like Eyesopened did, for instance. If it comes from the HD partner it seems as if the changes are either nonexistant or they come very slowwwly which has been my experience.
So if this drug comes to fruition, it might be nice to use in those instances to jump start someone's libido and then slowly wean themselves off of it, but honestly that sort of thing rarely happens. We have become a culture that is dependent on drugs to alter everything about ourselves that we do not want to change on our own.
