Thanks for the recommendations, Scott. I'll definitely take a look at the books. Of course, remember that she read SSM and used it to tell me how I was doing everything wrong.
HEY everyone...here's a link to that drug that supposedly increases female sex drive. CNN ARTICLE. Okay, so it's not for everyone. Honeypot, you should definitely stay away from this!
Hairdog - who would pay big bucks if it worked on women...but isn't particularly interest in female rats.