HD, Maybe you need to expand her feminist reading list. I've always enjoyed Susie Bright. She's a delightful writer who never turned in her feminist credentials to stop enjoying sex. Her books are a delight, I especially love her essay in "Sexual State of the Nation" where she had a party to get rid of the porn tapes she had acquired as reviewed for the women's erotic magazine she wrote for.
So maybe try finding good feminist writings that celebrate female sexuality. The women at Good Vibrations.com and at Blowfish.com have a great selection of books on sexuality from a female point of view.
Scott -Who does read more than just SF.
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