There are times I wish I could tell Ms. HD about this board, but I NEVER mention it. I'd love for her to read so many of the posts: the HDWs complaining about lack of desire from their LDHs; the pain the HD spouses go through; the success stories. But the problem, like Wildebube's, is that she would see it as an invasion of her privacy, treasonous behavior, and of course, she'd read the not-so-nice things I've said about her.

And Tim, I've known she's a nutcase for a long time. Ok, not a nutcase. But she has definitely constructed this reality that has the man-as-sexual-beast and the woman as the violated. This has to do with some family history, none having to do directly with her, and the fact that her best friends are her sister and her aunts, who share similar views.

Would that Honeypot, Greeneyedlass, annette, and the others could take her out for some wine.... I fear it would take many visits, many bottles, and I'd end up with a bunch of converted HD to LD wives on my hands. She is very persuasive, you know.

But I feel she is basically taking advantage of my patience. The crucible is approaching.

Hairdog - who appreciates the feedback of everyone.