Journey, I agree. When I am at a playgroup with other SAHM's and I do not chime in on the Horny Bastard discussion and present MY view instead, I get looks of, gosh, they run the gamut...disbelief, disgust, 'you must be a freak' looks, and then finally the convo turns to "My husband would love to be married to you" which I don't know how to interpret--envy?
As far as being an LD guy, wow, I really can't imagine. I know that H feels (or felt) a deep sense of shame about it. Although my H is a remarkably strong guy...he knows who he is and he is comfortable with that. I think that, in the face of all the crap I spewed at him about our sex life, I would have withered if I were him. He has remained strong and true--he's really something!, if I can take a minute to brag..
But he would never ever be able to come to a place like this and admit it to the world.
