HD's W was taking the opportunity to justify her own behavior and torture HD some more... score one for women (just joking of course, HD). I would love to tell her how much shame there is in being the HDW because of the sterotype she so easily tossed out at him to yank his chain. Does my high desire make me an uncivilized animal type? Would repressing it make me more of a woman? Is my lower desire H not a real man? Notice how no LDM post about their situation, even to an anonymous board. Thank goodness for the SSM book for bringing the sex issue out of the closet and making us feel less alone in these struggles. J
