I know it's frustrating to have a spouse who simply won't communicate with your about something this important. My LDH is SLOWLY coming out of that shell...very slowly mind you, but it's progress nonetheless.
BTW - the posts I had my LDH read weren't in response to what I posted...but they were very similar situations, at that point I simply told him I had been reading these posts for support. He now knows I also post...fortunately for me he knows I need to be able to get these things off my chest and receive feedback...he also knows at this point he's my worst source for feedback...he simply cannot talk about certain things such as sex (yet)...when he tries, the thoughts form in his brain...but the words simply won't come out his mouth. - So, I know we are in somewhat different situations....
