Quote: I've actually told my LDH about this message board and have in fact shared a few of the postings with him
Would that I could do such a thing. I think that reading some of the things here would be great for my W, but she would be horrified to learn that I posted. She would view that as an unconscionable invasion of her privacy.
I've mentioned before that she refuses to discuss our sex problems with the C. Her response to the C has always been that they can't help her and that she'll have to work on it herself. She won't discuss that decision with me either, but my take on it is that it's not an unwillingness to work on the problem, but an unwillingness to discuss it with anyone. Was it embarrassment that we hadn’t ML in over 12 years of M? Was she ashamed to admit that we only ML a couple of times a year since then? Was she just of the opinion that sex is so intensely private that you just don’t discuss it at all? I can’t answer any of those questions, but I do know that she refuses to discuss our sex issues. I do know that she was angry with me for even revealing sexual problems to the Cs. So telling her about this board? You must be kidding.
