Well if there's no such thing as a Honeypot, then there's no such thing as a Greeneyedlass either and that would mean everything I think I'm going through is in my head LOL...NOT!!! Boy HD, your W has no clue what some of us (including yourself) are going through does she. That's sort of the problem I was experiencing with my LDH...when they aren't missing something and life seems peachy keen to them, they think it's the norm and your abnormal.
I've actually told my LDH about this message board and have in fact shared a few of the postings with him...mainly so he can see, I'm not the only one out there who feels the way I do, not is he the only one with LD in the world who is male. For us it helps to have that type of openess...and there's a bit of safety for him knowing there are others out there with the same problem we have...but he doesn't have to look them in the eye and feel less manly.
I'm thinking it may not be such a bad idea for her to read some of these posts...it may give her some food for thought.