Great post, SuperDave. I need to get to the point with my W that, instead of saying that I want to ML with her, saying, "I want to ML with you, at a minimum, once a week."

Geoff, I came off as a bit of an a-hole, but I was trying to make a point. I think the other people who have posted after me helped with that point: mental castration, although a fairly common reaction, simply does not work.

Hairdog