Quote: If I have to perform a mental castration to accomplish that, then, unfortunately, so be it.
Alrighty, then. I guess you don't need this board.
Does this all sound familiar (to the old timers on this board)? We seem to get either the people who are willing to castrate/spay themselves mentally, the people who are headed to a divorce but willing to give it one more shot, and the folks who want to improve their relationship to the point that sex and ML are a comfortable part of their marriage.
If you're not willing to put in the work to be the latter type of person, we can't really help you here. But, if you want to walk the edge, figure out some things about yourself and your relationship, take some leaps of faith, step out of the old comfort zone, we might be able to help.
Otherwise, enjoy your mental castration quietly.
Hairdog - Harsh today and 80 percent chance of continuing impatience tomorrow.
