Okay, so i'm not doing so well with H response to going shopping lol... I guess i really did think he was going to say yes.... here was my email. I did really well with this i think..
I am taking DS shopping today with his money. Do you want to go as well? I am taking your mom along so it isnt a big deal if it would be easier to pass. Let me know though and give me a time that you are taking lunch so i can plan it. Thanks.
His response
You can go. I will catch up with you tonight. Love Ya!
UGH I know i gave him the out... and i know i need to follow it up. but i'm bummy that he isnt meeting us. anyway... this is my opportunity though to show him that I am changing.... normally i would email him back or worse yet call and say "your not going??? what are you doing?? do you have plans for lunch with someone else???? yep that would be me.. hard to admit but thats what i have done in the past.... Instead I just sent this....
Okay, Have a good day, Love ya!
complete 180!!! but i still cant help wondering what he is doing at lunch that he doesnt want to come with us... ths is where trust comes in I know thanks for listening.
Goals for today I will not call or email or send messages with my phone. I will go with ds and MIL and have a great time. But .. between you all and me.. this is eating me up... UGH...
I know i gave him the out... and i know i need to follow it up. but i'm bummy that he isnt meeting us. anyway... this is my opportunity though to show him that I am changing.... normally i would email him back or worse yet call and say "your not going??? what are you doing?? do you have plans for lunch with someone else???? yep that would be me.. hard to admit but thats what i have done in the past.... Instead I just sent this....