Well, one day I'll make it to Maine and we can hug! I've always wanted to head to your neck of the woods...
Goodness, Kristy, you guys have grown up together. Look at all that history the 2 of you share. Your H sounds like a really special guy... and definitely worth fighting for.
Did you ever check out the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman? I'd really love to see you give us some input here so we can help you fill his love tank. And hopefully gain some insight on how he can fill yours. I think I have a good idea, but I want to hear your thoughts first.
Now it's time to leave your childhood behind and figure out who Kristy the woman is, and who Kristy ultimately wants to be when she grows up. Don't worry, that is a constantly evolving process and you never "get there" but you have to shoot for something...
Aim high, sweetie!
Honeypot, would you PLEASE get your butt down here in piecing? I promise to start writing the book if you'll head our way...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."