Quote: Do you feel bitter because you feel that he "won" and you did everything according to his rules?
Or can you precisely identify where the resentful feelings are coming from?
My personality seems to be more ompetative... i would say that it comes from feeling like i'm giving up something for him.... so yes that he is winning and i'm not.. when i know how foolish this sounds, because we both win... however if i continue down my spiral path it will be a lose lose situation... Thanks for your input, it def. helps me to look at it as.. is it worth thinking i am winning in this situation when the outcome will be losing!
